Ticking off things on the family bucket list

It’s been an exciting and incredibly busy year since my last post.  After we got home from our last trip, we promptly began putting things in place to finally fulfill a life dream of an extended trip to Mexico so that we could immerse the kids in the language and culture of their heritage.  So a lot needed to be done in preparation.  Deciding what to do with the business ventures at home.  How to address healthcare for the family at home and abroad once my COBRA coverage ended.  Budgets to keep saving for the trip (which we have been doing for years) and making sure we could also cover the costs that remained at home.  Learning a bit about the homeschooling rules in Michigan so that we understood our rights when pulling our children from school. Partnering with each school so that they would be supportive of our trip, in the event that the kids would return to the same school after the trip.  Similarly, finding out what key materials would need to be covered for each child, so that they could proceed into the next grade in the fall.  We all recognize that a long-term trip like this is highly educational in and of itself, and we also want to be sure that we keep the kids in synch with their classmates on key subjects.  We are so fortunate to have very supportive schools and teachers, and they really helped tremendously by providing key support materials and tools to help us in our adventure.

Then after managing the logistics, preparing our tax returns as best possible with preliminary numbers, and automating as many logistics as possible, we were on to packing our lives into 6 suitcases, not to exceed 50 pounds each. This was quite the process too, as we needed to pack for all climates and seasons, include school materials, some gifts (birthday for Miriam and Christmas for all kids), as well as a handful of toys and games to keep everyone busy for the next few months.  We packed, culled, and repacked.  I was thankful that we had time.  I thought of refugees who maybe have an hour to pack their lives into a bundle that they could carry and flee.  It must be a gut-wrenching process.  I have the security in the knowledge that I can return home, and I have a high level of certainty that the belongings that I leave behind will still be there.  We are travelling under very different circumstances, and pray for those less fortunate.

OK back to the lighter side of things…Since this was a year long process of preparation, we took a few needed breaks along the way.  

Over the summer, we ticked another bucket list box and visited San Francisco and northern California.  It was chilly, especially when compared to Michigan temps in July, but absolutely gorgeous.  We were awed by the gentle giants in the Redwood National Forrest.  The rocky, misty coast was magical, and the vistas of Yosemite National Park were breathtaking.  The kids kicked up and down numerous paths through the forests, mountains, along streams, and through city scapes.  They saw elk and sea lions in their natural habitat.  We even thought we caught a glimpse of a whale as we stood on the Golden Gate Bridge and peered into the waters below.  This quickly became another place on the list to come back to.

   

In Michigan, we took a fall escape to the north to enjoy a weekend on Mackinac Island.  We hadn’t been there since Juliana was 1, so it was great fun to pack up the bikes and explore the island with our dear neighbors and friends who joined us for the trip.  The year was also peppered with various get-togethers with friends and loved ones, making it a truly wonderful time, filled with memories for everyone in the family. 

And now for this jump into a sabbatical for parents and children, to explore life in Mexico.  With a mid-December departure, our first stop was with family in Temixco, Morelos.  We got to spend time with Alex’s parents and his grandmother.  The kids spent quality time playing with their cousins, and parents got to catch up with Alex’s brother and wife.  It was a great way to jump start into Spanish and enjoy some much needed “down time” after the stress and packing that predicated our departure from Michigan.  The temperature change was welcome too!  Michigan was boasting temps in the single digits and low teens when we left, with lots of snow and icy roads.  Arriving in Temixco, we shed our winter coats and hats and put on shorts, more in line with the temps in the mid-80’s.

 While in town, we took the opportunity to visit the grave-sites of Alex’s 3 grandparents who have passed over the last few years.  We brought flowers for the kids to decorate the grave sites.


 We also took some time to visit the fields of roses that the family here tends.  They ran along the edges and between the rows exploring the different colors.  Of course, they ended up with flowers in hand and scrapes on the legs from the thorny plants.  At home, the kids were amazed by the mountains of flowers in the coolers, waiting for a trip to the market.  December is a good month in the rose business, as people celebrate the Virgen de Guadalupe mid-month, and then the Christmas season.  The roses still in the fields are being tended in preparation for Valentine’s day.

We ended our brief time in Morelos by visiting the ruins of Xochicalco. Construction at this site began around 200 AD and was at its height around 700-900 AD, and was likely used as a fortress to protect trade routes in the region.  Since the area is not very good for farming, it is believed that the population engaged largely in craft production and long distance trade.  Xochicalco is a wonderful little site that is easily explored in a couple of hours.  Since there weren’t a lot of tourists there, the kids could really enjoy running around the site and climbing the various pyramids.  A few things that we found interesting about the site were the numerous ball courts of different sizes and in different cardinal directions.  We also enjoyed the Templo de la Serpiente Enplumada (Temple of the Feathered Serpent ) which is extraordinarily well preserved. 

Our last stop on the Xochicalco site was to go inside the Observatory.  To access the Observatory, you go by small group through a series of tunnels and pathways under the site until you reach an round room where there is a shaft of light that reflects on the floor.  The bottom of the shaft enters through a cupola style dome in the ceiling. Above it is a hexagonal shaft where the hexagon is shaped to twist a bit as it rises.  Since we came in winter, we had only a little daylight come through the shaft.  Even so, we were able to observe multiple visual phenomena with the light and shadows.  Beginning April 30 until about mid-August, direct sunlight will come through the shaft at different angles and degrees, creating different geometrical shapes in the shadows of the floor each day.  On the summer solstice at mid day, a full stream of light will come through the shaft, which is angled at 2 degrees, to illuminate the entire room like a waterfall of light.  Our guide explained that the priests at Xochicalco used the patterns in the light and sun to guide the people on when to plant, when to harvest, and so on.  This observatory is the only one currently open to the public.  There are a handful of other archeological sites that have similar observatories, but they are not publicly accessible.  We felt fortunate to have had the opportunity to visit this one!

We wrapped up our time in Temixco with dinner with the family, more playtime for the kids, and a dance performance by the girls.  We will miss each other and hopefully will get to see each other again sometime further along on our trip.  On the morning of the 17^th we boarded a bus to our next stop: San Miguel de Allende, Guanajuato!